Jeni Wahlig, LMFT

Washington · 13 years in practice

Jeni Wahlig is a licensed marriage and family therapist practicing in Washington.

License and registration

LMFT, Washington: LF 60633246 · expires August 2026
NPI: 1689983025 · national provider identifier
Years in practice: 13
Languages: English

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About Jeni

Jeni Wahlig is a licensed marriage and family therapist practicing in Washington. She brings 13 years of clinical experience to conversations about relationships, stress, anxiety, and life changes. Jeni aims to create a calm, nonjudgmental space so people can speak openly about difficult feelings and choices.

Her work centers on helping people navigate relationship and intimacy challenges. That includes communication problems, commitment questions, infidelity, and issues that come up in blended families.

Background and approach

She also supports those coping with separation, divorce, and the strains of parenting. Jeni uses Emotionally-Focused Therapy alongside attachment-based and client-centered approaches. She blends these with practical tools from cognitive behavioral therapy and relationship skills from the Gottman Method.

Sessions focus on what matters most to the person in front of her and on clear steps to change patterns that feel stuck. She has experience addressing LGBT and gender-related concerns, including gender dysphoria and sexuality questions. Jeni also helps with loneliness, codependency, life purpose, and self-love work.

Her background makes her familiar with the particular stresses that can come from non-monogamous relationships and polyamory arrangements. People who meet with Jeni can expect conversations that are direct but compassionate. She supports parents working through parenting strain and adults managing transitions.

The goal is steady progress and usable skills for everyday life.

Focus areas and approaches

Everything Jeni lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.

LGBT
Relationship issues
Coping with life changes
Stress, Anxiety
Family conflicts
Intimacy-related issues
Parenting issues
Blended family issues
Codependency
Commitment issues
Communication problems
Divorce and separation
Gender dysphoria
Infidelity
Isolation / loneliness
Life purpose
Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
Self-love
Sexuality
Women's issues

Approaches Jeni names

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Online support

How emotion-focused and attachment work online

Emotionally-Focused Therapy is centered on identifying and working with strong emotions that shape how people relate. It helps people name what they feel and shift patterns that keep them stuck, which can ease tension in relationships and improve connection.

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds influence present reactions and closeness. It helps people understand attachment patterns and build more supported ways of relating to others. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes a respectful, nonjudgmental approach where the person sets the pace and goals for work together.

Jeni will work collaboratively to find the best fit of methods for each person’s goals. She listens to what matters most, discusses options, and adjusts the approach as progress is made. Finding the right approach is part of the therapy process rather than a one-time decision.

Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to increase flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation for relationship work, while phone sessions can be a good choice when bandwidth is limited or a quieter check-in is needed. Live chat and messaging make it easier to fit short check-ins into a busy day or to follow up between sessions. These formats let licensed professionals provide consistent ongoing support across different schedules and life demands.

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Questions people ask

What concerns does Jeni focus on?

Jeni supports people facing relationship and intimacy issues, stress and anxiety, parenting strain, family conflict, and life transitions. Additional focuses include sexuality, gender dysphoria, infidelity, codependency, and non-monogamous relationship work.

What is Jeni's therapy style like?

Her style blends Emotionally-Focused Therapy with attachment-based and client-centered approaches. Sessions are conversational and aimed at helping people understand emotions and change interaction patterns.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Jeni has 13 years of professional experience working with relationship and life-change concerns in Washington. That experience informs her work with communication and intimacy challenges.

What credentials and location are on record?

She is a LMFT licensed in Washington. Her practice is based in Washington state.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted for work?

International clients are not currently accepted; Jeni works with people based under her Washington license.

What session formats are available online?

Work with Jeni can happen via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options let people choose a format that fits their schedule and comfort level.

How do fees and getting started work?

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