Tommi-Jai Walsh, LSCSW, LCSW

Kansas · 21 years in practice

Tommi-Jai Walsh is a licensed clinical social worker with more than two decades of counseling experience.

License and registration

LSCSW, Kansas: 2215 · expires November 2027
LCSW, Missouri: 2001028090 · expires September 2027
NPI: 1679625958 · national provider identifier
Years in practice: 21
Languages: English

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About Tommi-Jai

Tommi-Jai Walsh is a licensed clinical social worker with more than two decades of counseling experience. He brings a calm, approachable presence to sessions and aims to make people feel heard. His work is grounded in practical steps and clear conversation rather than jargon.

He focuses on stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, and relationship and intimacy concerns. He also supports people navigating LGBT matters, gender dysphoria, parenting strains, and coping with life changes.

Background and approach

Additional areas of attention include ADHD, bipolar concerns, and issues related to communication, control, and blended families. Tommi-Jai uses a mix of Emotionally-Focused Therapy, client-centered methods, cognitive behavioral techniques, and elements of dialectical behavior and existential approaches. In practice this means helping people notice unhelpful thinking, name difficult emotions, and try new ways of responding in relationships.

Sessions often combine gentle exploration of feelings with concrete skills to manage distress. People who appreciate a low-key, nonjudgmental style tend to do well with him. He is comfortable talking about alternative sexual cultures and kink without moralizing.

He also brings specific experience around fatherhood, divorce and separation, and forgiveness work. Tommi-Jai holds KS LSCSW and MO LCSW credentials and works from Missouri. He conducts sessions in English and is available to international clients.

His approach aims to help people make steady, realistic changes and plan for a more hopeful future.

Focus areas and approaches

Everything Tommi-Jai lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.

Stress, Anxiety
LGBT
Relationship issues
Family conflicts
Depression
Trauma and abuse
Grief
Intimacy-related issues
Parenting issues
Anger management
Self esteem
Bipolar disorder
Coping with life changes
ADHD
Autism and Asperger Syndrome
BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
Blended family issues
Communication problems
Control issues
Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
Divorce and separation
Family problems
Fatherhood issues
Forgiveness
Gender dysphoria
Guilt and shame
Infidelity
Jealousy
Life purpose
Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
Self-love
Social anxiety and phobia

Approaches Tommi-Jai names

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Online support

Emotion and Skill Work Over Video and Messaging

Tommi-Jai combines Emotionally-Focused Therapy with client-centered listening and cognitive behavioral techniques to help people understand feelings and change patterns. Emotionally-Focused Therapy focuses on identifying and naming emotions in the moment to improve how people connect and regulate. Client-centered work emphasizes an accepting, nonjudgmental stance so people can explore concerns at their own pace. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy looks at thinking patterns and practical skills to reduce distress and build new habits.

Finding the right approach is collaborative. The therapist will talk with the client about goals and preferences, try methods that fit those goals, and adjust as needed. That shared planning helps decide whether emotion-focused exploration, skill-based work, or a mix will be most useful.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to match different needs. Video sessions let the therapist and client read facial cues and do deeper emotional work. Phone sessions are useful when bandwidth or camera use is a concern. Chat and messaging can provide shorter check-ins, homework support, or a way to process between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into work, parenting, or travel schedules while maintaining continuity of care.

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Questions people ask

What kinds of concerns does Tommi-Jai address?

He helps with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, and relationship concerns, plus areas like ADHD, bipolar, parenting, and life transitions.

What is his general therapy style?

He blends client-centered listening with Emotionally-Focused Therapy and practical techniques from CBT and DBT to name feelings and try new responses.

How long has he been practicing?

He brings 21 years of counseling experience and years of work supporting LGBT and alternative lifestyle concerns.

Where is he licensed and located?

He holds KS LSCSW and MO LCSW credentials and practices from Missouri.

In which languages can sessions be held?

Sessions are offered in English and he is available to work with international clients.

What session formats are available?

He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.

How does cost and billing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

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